Fast forward two years later and I know why that son of bitch was fanatical about passwords. During the fall out, I discovered accounts...it was hard because even if I could guess it what accounts he had, the password stopped me. It wasn't proof enough if the login screen automatically started his email address - it happens all the time.
Passwords...
When I made the amnesty deal...that everything he said was up for forgiveness, if only he would be honest. It was a time limited deal and he took advantage...he gave me his passwords. There must have been at least 7 or 8 of them and the kicker was that they were all variations...and these variations would change every 3 months. I didn't stand a chance...
The other day he needs to log onto webmail (DID YOU KNOW THAT WEBMAIL WILL NOT DELETE YOUR ACCOUNT- WHAT ASSHOLES) anyways, he pauses over the keypad as I sit next him. I had given up the pretense of not watching and stared at his long fingers as they hovered over the key board. I could almost hear the whirring in his brain - which one was it...what if he put in a password he hadn't given me before...high drama indeed. He typed in a password I was familiar with and he shoulders sagged with relief when it went through...
Passwords are good, but be careful if your partner has multiple passwords for multiple things. Anybody that security conscience is hiding something.
I literally taught myself to read code to catch him
To this day, I assume he had other accounts he never told me about... I have lost the advantage of surprise and he has learnt that his naive wife can be an investigative journalist when the need strikes. If he has accounts, it won't be under his name anymore...
But I watch those passwords...he hasn't changed them in looong time. But I am patient and I'll wait and if there is change, you better bet you ass- that I will find what it unlocks...
nice work! I love those high drama moments especially when there's no pretending on my part.
ReplyDeleteI know right - before our DDays, we spend so much time secretively snooping, checking their stuff without giving an indication of what we're doing...it becomes a game and now...now those jerks have lost the privilege of asking why are we interested or why are we watching...now we can be as busybody as well like :-) and it feels AWESOME!
ReplyDeleteI remember all the secret accounts and all those passwords. Ugh! Nasty business, indeed. That day I came home after saying I would leave unless all the truth came out and he gave me three "secret" email addresses and one of the passwords was just gross. smh
ReplyDeleteGlad those days are over.
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When I was evicted from the family home by my mother, my father rented a small room for me. But my mother and brothers believed that having HIV was my own fault – and that I deserved to be punished...I also considered myself unworthy and without hope... But I have a child and eventually I convinced myself to live for my child’s sake.
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