Your weight matters. It shouldn't, but it does. There are women and men out there, who make sport of finding married people to have affairs with. We have partners who are looking for next available person. Look after yourself and give your partner something to be proud of.
A wife picking up weight, is not an excuse for a man to cheat - but just because its not rational, doesn't mean its not real.
ow ow ow that one hurt!!!! He used to say that he loved my curves and I thought it was true! But yep youre right, when we started dating I was curvy healthy fast forward 4 years and I got curvy fat obese. Silly me... I thought he was into that too.
ReplyDeleteUgh!!!
But now... Im really looking forward my twins birth so that I can get back in shape and rub it in his face. I know it is, and sounds stupid but hey!!! I've still got a bit of a girly ego.
K.
Same here...man,I genuinely thought I was doing okay - but apparently not. Despite his constant assurance that my weight is fine, it stings that none of the women he slept with were my size. He tried to tell me he used watch porn with woman my size, but I don't believe him :-(
ReplyDeleteI have to admit, if I one day met a man who genuinely liked my bigness, my husband would be in trouble. It sucks to be constanty comparing myself to every woman, knowing I am not thin enough for him.